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PORN: It's just a laugh ... isn't it?

Fantasy sex, fantasy bodies?

Most people don't look like people in porn films, perfect teeth, perfect skin, big breasts and big penises.  Most men don't have penises that stay erect for ages. Most women don't shave their pubic area.  And part of the fun of sex is foreplay, taking the time to arouse each other is a natural part of real sex, it makes the end result more intense.

Is porn sex real sex?

The story being told by porn films is just that, a story, the actors are being paid to do a job and have agreed to do things that most people wouldn't want to do in their real sex lives.

A lot of porn is violent, usually towards women, it tells a story that sex is violent.  The story the woman is telling may say that she enjoys it.  Remember she is getting paid to tell the story.  For most people violence is not something that they want to be involved in.

Porn can be like junk food, giving an instant high and then comes the low. In good sex we care about our partners feelings so the 'high' lasts for longer.

Being pressured to have porn sex?

Don't let yourself be pressured into doing anything you don't want to,  it won’t make your partner like you more or stay with you. If they are ignoring how you feel then think about whether this is a good relationship.

Nobody has the right to touch you in a way that you don't want to or to persuade you to have sex when you don't want to.

If you feel under pressure to have sex, are worried about your use or your friends use of porn you might want to talk to somebody, perhaps your mum or dad or a friend. 

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